Why Do You Do That?

When Andre started getting teeth and they came in split in front you made a point to say something about it every time you seen him and it was always in "picking on" manor. When Kaleb was born and he was/is big you make it a point to say something about that and how he is his daddy but his daddy was never that big. Now with Ellie you make a point to say something about her big ears every time you see her and quite frankly if I hear it the next time I will say something. I don't care if your joking or not I work hard as a mother to build my kids up and let them know that no matter how different they are or anyone else is everyone is beautiful especially them. By you picking on them and pointing out their imperfections at some point they will break down and become self conscious and I don't want that for my children.

I lived like that and I will do everything in my power to not let that happen to my children. You are their grandmother act like it. I'm so sorry that they are not what they should be in your eyes but they are exactly the way they should be in mine AND Gods. I know you think their "imperfections" come from me and that's fine I'll take whatever I can claim of them since according to you they are their father.......I guess you mean the "perfect" side of them is their father right?

Back off, allow them to be kids, they will find things about themselves that they don't like soon enough as will other kids around them. Don't contribute to them hating things about themselves. Build them up and be apart of them loving themselves God knows in today's world loving yourself is one of the hardest things for anyone to accomplish.